4 Simple Tips To Get A Quality Date

Dating has become such a “touch and go” encounter that it’s so hard to even remember the last person you went out with last week. Unless there were sparks and your last date was amazing, then this would be a totally different topic altogether. But most of the time, you hop from one date to another ending up with no one special in particular. There’s really no guarantee with the quantity of dates you go on every week.

But how can you actually find quality in quantity? Must you really need to rely on quantity to end up with a quality date? Simply put, do you have to grab every opportunity to go on a date to find that one special person? Maybe you should consider these things before answering those questions.

4. He Went Out Of His Way To Ask You Out

You may want to give more importance to the guys that go out of their way to ask you out. These aren’t the guys that just send a text message to ask you out. These are the guys that actually go out of their way to call you days before the date. These aren’t the kind of guys that sends a text message that says, “You want to go out now?”

So if you really want to end up with a quality date, you may want to give more consideration to these kinds of guys (or should I say, “to this kind of guy” because there aren’t a lot of them!).

A guy that takes time out to schedule out a date is sincere and decent. He respects your time and is willing to wait. Also, he wants to really get to know you and that’s why he wants to make sure that the date will definitely go through, without a hitch. So if you really want to end up with a quality date, you may want to give more consideration to these kinds of guys (or should I say, “to this kind of guy” because there aren’t a lot of them!). Related read: Badass dating tips from Joshua Pellicer

3. The Date Fits Right Into Your Schedule

If the date fits right into your schedule, then, chances are, you’re in for a quality date. While it’s very tempting to jump at every opportunity to meet someone, you just really have to consider what you have to give up to go on a date. If there’s so much to give just to meet someone for coffee, then the date is not worth it.

2. You’ve A Good Feeling About The Date

If you have a good feeling about the date, then you should trust your instinct. But if you feel something is off, then maybe it’s just not the quality date you’re looking for. Be honest with yourself. You will know when it’s a good date or not.

1. You’ve Known Each Other For Some Time

While blind dates can be exciting, it’s best to really screen them out. But if a friend of yours has gone out of the way to ask you out, then maybe it’s a date worth considering. Related read: Tao Of Badass dating guide

Going out with someone you’ve known for a long time can be quite exciting as well. You just really need to make sure that it’s a date.

Going out with someone you’ve known for a long time can be quite exciting as well. You just really need to make sure that it’s a date. So if that particular friend of yours suddenly schedules out a dinner date that fits right into your schedule, then maybe you should give it a try. This is not to assume that it’s a real date but you can never really tell. At least not until the two of you are finally out on a date.

No one can really say if the quantity of dates you go on can really help you find someone special. But one thing for sure, you can get really exhausted if you grab every opportunity to date. Don’t waste your time and effort only to end up exhausted and lonely. Make each date count by screening all your dates. Don’t just grab every opportunity to date. Take your time and assess each date that comes along. It’s the best way to finally end up with a quality date.

Got any tips to help ensure a quality date? Any thoughts on avoiding a dating disaster?

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